my life...

[symbioidlj]

1) we had our xmas party for work this past weekend. the hotel wasn't that great, but the dinner was awesome. I did end up eating meat, but it was nice that they made a special order for Rosemary to eat.

2) went shopping for a couch on Sunday. It still smells like those nasty chemicals, but otherwise it's fucking awesome. It's a might shorter than the other one, but it's still nice and large and most certainly comfy. micro-fiber.

3) the people that are closer to me on my list may know(as they've added sophy to their list), but we've decided to open up to a possible triad, v, or we'd be primary with each other, and have our own secondary... We're taking things slow. strangely, I already got a reply from someone (HELLO!!! :) )(she's reading this right now... I've not mentioned your name yet for your own privacy, though based upon what I've seen you probably don't care)

This is very interesting that we've decided to do this, considering we've always been philosophically polyamorous.

I also bought a new digital camera. I just learned something though. Never, ever, ever take the actual "cost" of the camera at face value, because 1) you need to get a larger memory card(which can bump it up a minimum of 50 bucks, and possibly over a hundred), 2) you need to get a battery-charger pack, and probably need a carrier to go with it(since they don't give you those)

It sucks that they don't give you fully charged batteries right away, unless there's some reason they can't(ie: they lose charge over time so you don't get a full charge)

So I'm charging up now(I hope they can be done by morning. I'd love to have some new pics for y'all)

Am in some strange state of joy and confusion. Not high, but I bet you could tell, because this is fairly coherent. I find the most interesting thing about having decided to open up our relationship is that it's actually made me feel closer to Rosemary, which is strange, because I wouldn't have thought that would be the case.

Also, finally... I got m'self set up with a float session at Blue Lotus Float Center. From what it sounds like, it's mostly just someones house. I think it's a husband and wife team, and they're both hypnotherapists, as well as doing the float tank, and they also offer massage(though that may be from an external person, not one of them) I'm excited and nervous.

taeli, I'll let you know how it goes, maybe we can head out together sometime.

that's my life in a nutshell...

Peace!

Comments

[rflagg.livejournal.com]

Cool, what kind of digital camera? The best place to get cheap memory cards is definately online - try newegg.com, I get from them fairly regularly and they usually have decent deals. And yes, the reason they don't come charged is because they'd lose their charge during shipping/display time. I also highly suggest a backup battery, so if/when your battery dies, you won't have to sit around and wait for it to recharge (is it just AAs or is it a LiIon special battery?)

Having someone else come into the relationship can allow for the closeness to grow between you and Rosemary - another person can help remind you of all the things you love about her that you begin to take for granted over time, or even see things through their eyes that you never quite appreciated fully before. Glad to hear things are well for you. :)

-m.

[kitnish.livejournal.com]

Assuming that's me, no, I don't care. :) And hello!

I'd be interested in hearing about this float session you're going to. My hubby's a chiropractor. He uses some of the less typical and less invasive chiropractic techniques, and wants to move more towards the alternative healing end of the chiropractic spectrum. We're always interested in what other healers are doing!

[kitnish.livejournal.com]

Oh, I was going to mention, in case you didn't see the announcement. We're having games and soup night at my house Saturday if you and Rosemary would like to come. :)

[symbioid.livejournal.com]

I did see that, unfortunately, Saturday nights are when I get together with my friend Tony and make music, and Rosemary might be hanging out with her friends.

Right now, we're still talking about how to go about this, so it may be a while before we "jump in" so to speak. I hope that's not a problem. Since we're new and we want to do this right.

[kitnish.livejournal.com]

No problem. :) Just a social invitation, and I never expect that everyone will show up for social stuff. I usually enjoy getting to know people in a group setting, or at least with a couple other people, or my hubby, before we start talking about dating. It doesn't *always* work out that way, but most of the time I know people socially before I start dating them.

[symbioid.livejournal.com]

I realized as I was driving to lunch how it sounded, actually. I figured I'd see if you replied and then straighten out what I meant. you do know what I mean, so that's good.

You never know what someone's going to be like, so it's always nice to meet and get to know them first(duh?)

I think we'd all get along, I know Rosemary and I enjoy games, even though we don't play them too often. Our friend Angie might enjoy playing too! Alas, she works on weekends.(she's taeli

Anyways, yeah... I'm gonna tell Rosemary of the invite, even though this time it's probably not a good schedule for us, maybe we can think about that so in the future we can hang out and play games. What games do you play? Board games? Card? CCG? RPG? Anyways, catcha later!

[kitnish.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I usually like to meet the people date before we start dating. :) Though I *have* had a few long distance relationships that developed emotionally for quite a while before we met in person. It worked fabulously well with one, and not so well with the other. But I knew before meeting the latter that it probably wasn't going to work out between us, just from our online interactions.

taeli is welcome to come too. :) The more the merrier!

I play 'em all (except CCG), but we'll probably be playing board games on Saturday. I don't like Euchre at all, but other than that, I'm up for most types of games. I role-play with a group at UW on Sundays. :)

[taeli.livejournal.com]

hi doll,

I've been kinda busy lately and now feel WAY behind in your and Rosemary's lives. =( So, we NEED to get together soon.

The floaty thing is run by two women, partners/girlfriends, who also do hypnosis. They contract with a massage person as well. At least, that's the last I knew of them. =)